Don’t be like Grandad Rodney… ๐Ÿ‘ด

Don’t be like Grandad Rodney… ๐Ÿ‘ด

Rodney was my maternal Grandfather and a lovely man; I had a wonderful relationship with my maternal grandparents so the title of this post is a little misleading as there was a lot to like and learn from him/them.

However, one of his pearls of wisdom got me thinking about a conversation I had with my eldest brother over Christmas.

This is almost not worth bothering with a post, but over the years I’ve found that things that are obvious to me are not always obvious to everyone else, which is why I’ve started writing them down.

So…

As a child, on our big Saturday trips from Ruthin to Chester in the car, Grandad would huff (he was a great huffer and puffer of cheeks) when someone overtook us. He would then explain that this overtaking was largely a futile manoeuver as the driver would get caught in traffic again and we would usually catch him and ultimately the overtaker would not get too far ahead.

So, as a child, I observed this and Grandad was usually correct.

And as an adult who drives a small sports car, when I overtake someone, Grandad is still usually correct particularly on the shorter journeys.

But every now and again I get lucky and overtaking makes me huge gains, which is why I persevere.

And when someone else does it to me and I slowly catch up with the driver in traffic, I don’t feel smug, I mentally congratulate the driver because at least sie had a go at getting further ahead than sie actually did!

So, back to the conversation I had with my eldest brother.

I suspect he is embarrassed at my persistent “controversial” postings here and on social media.

“Oh stop posting on social media” he whined; and I got mad because writing posts allows me to vent some of my frustrations, and it provides me with at least a semblance of control now that, for the first time in my life, I have become a member of an oppressed minority.

But there’s more to it than that; like the effort of overtaking in a car, most of my posts will make little difference to the world (except only perhaps to my mental health).

But maybe one day, one will make a big difference!

So I will keep trying!

Never give up!

Don’t let the caption of the cover photo put you off. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜